Ok so dh and I live away from both sets of parents. 2 and a half hours from my mum and dad and 4 hours away from his dad and partner
Anyway, on this one occasion we knew fil was coming down to see us, but hasn't told us a time or when he had set off. Anyway, we roll out of bed at 8am, I jump in the shower, do my ablutions and dh gets a phone call to say he's just down the road. No phone call or text to give us a nights notice or any idea of when he would be expected to turn up. We used to live around the corner from him before we moved to our new home, and would turn up out of the blue. Tbh I can't stand it, and think its rude to just 'turn up' and be expected to be welcomed in for a tea and a few hours. I think it's polite to phone or text the person to see if its convenient. He did the same thing in the middle of me having my hair and make up trial for my wedding and just got in the way the whole time he was there. I used to get on with him, but its gradually making me dislike him over something so petty. Am I the only one who thinks its utterly rude?!
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To get annoyed at fil (father in law) to turn up unexpectedly...?
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K8eee · 10/05/2013 14:32
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