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to want pics of my baby off a third party business page

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LadyGranulomaFortesque Fri 10-May-13 13:35:02

We attended a 1st birthday party last year and unbeknownst to me, one of the people there was in the process of setting up a photography business. I had no idea she was even taking pictures but a friend has just messaged me to say there are a few pics of my then six month old baby being used as promotion on her business Facebook page.

I am fuming - she didn't even ask even though she is a friend of a friend. I keep all of my pictures private and apart from a little cameo of me and my son together in my profile pic, there are NO pictures of him on Facebook and even pics of me are mostly private (I am weird like that).

I realise she took the pictures (covertly as today is the first time i have seen them) and I have sent her a polite message to take them down. Anyone have any idea where I stand legally if she refuses. I am so not happy about my little man being used as advertising for someone else's business. I feel like our privacy has been violated when I am normally so careful.

MrsSpagBol Tue 14-May-13 15:25:51

TBH Moonlight I still don't really understand why you picked on my posts specifically. I did not encourage any specific action in any of my posts (eg trashing her business), I just said I couldn't bear the issue being minimised as it was(in my view - which I believe I am entitled to) :

1. Common sense
2. Basic photography "etiquette"
3. Obvious business practice

That anyone should be expected to know, let alone a professional.

So my views still stand. I was bemused to be honest as to what you found so incredibly emotive and offensive about my specific posts. I didn't actually suggest any specific action in any of my initial posts. confused

MoonlightandRoses Tue 14-May-13 15:49:35

MrsSB - Apologies, that certainly wasn't the intention - I'd simply responded as you'd mentioned my name in your last post - that's all. Hadn't found anything emotive or offensive in them and wasn't belittling your view-point, just re-stating mine.

StuntGirl Tue 14-May-13 16:29:20

Aw gutted I missed your response to her OP! She sounds like an absolute charlatan, what have your mutual friends said about the whole thing? I'd take a very dim view of one of my friends behaving like this.

MrsSpagBol Tue 14-May-13 18:48:38

Moonlight fair enough. Here: peace offering? flowers

MrsDeVere Tue 14-May-13 18:54:13

Message withdrawn at poster's request.

JenaiMorris Tue 14-May-13 19:07:00


Rarely but effectively, blowing a gasket is well worth it.

Purplehonesty Tue 14-May-13 19:22:12

Ooh this would have annoyed me too. When we got married a young videographer who was just starting up did our video. We didn't pay very much and there was no contract etc. he did a good job and we were very pleased.
However a few months later someone stopped me in the street and said they recognised me from my wedding video...I asked where they had seen it and they said the guy had been sending out copies of my full wedding DVD to potential clients! I was livid, I've no idea how many people had seen it, watched me cry during my vows and dancing with my dh.
To top it off we went to the cinema one night and our picture came up during the averts at the start, promoting his business!
I had to ask him about ten times to stop, eventually left him a very angry and ranty voicemail threatening legal action which his dad replied to stating our video would not be used again.
Talk about mad!!

MoonlightandRoses Tue 14-May-13 20:29:47

MrsSB. Ditto and wine? smile

MrsSpagBol Tue 14-May-13 20:42:42

Oh Moonlight I wish I could imbibe wine - 9 weeks to go! smile

MoonlightandRoses Tue 14-May-13 21:48:11

Ah, but this is a virtual one, so you're fine. grin

The nine weeks will fly in.

MrsSpagBol Tue 14-May-13 21:58:06

I hope so!!! I am so tired of being pregnant!

daveydavidson Tue 14-May-13 22:01:09

Wouldn't of bothered me at all if she asked permission. YAB a bit U and precious

MoonlightandRoses Tue 14-May-13 22:21:16

Yes, I remember those days, heaving my bulk wandering gaily along having a hot flush 'glowing', wearing a 'floaty' outfit...Not sure how, given that lot, but the due date really did arrive before I knew it.

So, two weeks to the bank holiday, then two weeks after that it's four weeks before and then...grin

maddening Tue 14-May-13 22:34:56

But Davey - she didn't ask permission and was then rude when she was asked very reasonably to remove the pics which is the op's legal right to do so. 

GingerBlondecat Wed 15-May-13 09:38:07

? Davey? Are YOU the photographer?

what an odd responce to this. Have you read the whole thread ?

If you have then here have a biscuit

differentnameforthis Wed 15-May-13 09:57:20

The photo's have been removed

Make sure you tell her that there is no apostrophe in photos & that as a consumer, this would put me right off using her services.

IneedAsockamnesty Wed 15-May-13 20:40:18

Don't say anything at all about her grammar it will make you look like a knob and invalidate genuine concerns.

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