Hi wondered if anyone could give me advice....my mother is terminally ill with cancer and is now starting to go downhill things are very tough and we are all very upset my husband and I are all she has around her so now I feel we have to really step up and help her as much as we can because she is starting to struggle ...
.anyway I have a friend who has asked me to help out at a group I politely declined because right now I don't feel I can really commit to anything I just want to make sure that we are here for mum...I sent a message saying she has gone downhill and needs more of our time and care right now and that I would see how things are in months to come and then help if I could...
I got a message back saying I should just fill out forms and register myself to help anyway when i could...
I sent another message back saying that I needed to sort out my Passport for i.d then I would help when I was ready and could....unbelievably another message came back saying what is it you need to change i felt as if she didnt believe me...and then she said ok I will tell my friend you won't be at this meeting but you will be in touch very soon..by this time I was starting to feel a bit annoyed and pissed off ...this friend helps with everything and is involved with a lot of groups am I being unreasonable not to help right now I know this isn't a big problem but I felt she could have just left it after the first reply I gave...me being me feels guilty now but I really feel its the last thing on my mind right now to commit to anything ..
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glittertree · 08/05/2013 09:05
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