Well, not really, but I am pretty upset.
DD is 6 weeks old and HATES being in her pram. Most times that she's in it she screams blue murder to the point that she starts losing her voice/coughing and spluttering. We have a BabyBjorn which she loves to be in with DH, but with me it just escalates the situation (I think proximity to milk drives her nuts, even when she's not actually hungry). I therefore don't have a means of getting out of the house that doesn't make her scream. I'm going to get a sling but have tried a friend's before and it seemed to have the same effect as the BabyBjorn - I suppose the advantage is she can actually feed in a sling.
So, today I went for lunch with some friends. While I was out (3 hours), I fed her twice and made sure she burped. On the way home I popped into a shop, where the nice sales assistant held her while I got what I needed. She was perfectly calm at this point, but when I had to put her back in the pram she went ballistic.
About halfway home, I called DH for some moral support, as DD's dislike of the pram is really getting to me and I can't bear to hear her screaming. I usually stop the pram every few minutes to comfort her, talk to her, sing to her, but the only thing that stops the screaming is for me to carry her in my arms, and it's not possible for me to carry her and push the pram at the same time. While I was on the phone I passed an old lady who tutted and said "Poor baby, it's not getting anough attention." I couldn't believe what I was hearing so I turned around and said "WHAT?", at which she repeated herself more loudly.
I know I should just nod, smile, ignore, and as my DD has a very loud and piercing cry I'm sure she really thought that she was being abused or something. But DD is adored, much cuddled and played with, and is generally a happy baby (when I don't make her go in the dreaded pram). This is my first baby and the first few weeks have been really tough (as I'm sure they are for the vast majority of people), and it's really hard sometimes not to feel like the world's worst parent. The old lady has just made me feel pretty bad about myself, which I know is ridiculous as I arrived home 30 mins ago, fed DD and now she's sleeping on me as if nothing happened.
On a practical note, does anyone have any tips for how I can make outings less stressful for both me and DD? When I was pregnant I had fantasies of going for daily walks with her but in reality there are many days that I don't get out of the house at all.
AIBU?
to want to kick an old lady in the shins?
DorothyMantooth · 07/05/2013 16:40
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