I got engaged in Feb 2012 and am due to marry May 2014. My best friend (we met when we were 6!) has been having a pretty crazy on-off relationship with an Ecuadorian (she's from the UK) for the last 7 or so years. As far as I was aware, things were very much off (she had said she could not face moving to Ecuador as her parents were ill). Last night she calls me up to tell me things are on again (sigh). He seems like an okay guy (I have only met him once in 7 years!) but the drama of it all is wearing.
Anyway, so she's said she's going to quit her job once and for all and move out there, and then he said he'll propose after six months if things are going well and they'll get married after that. She wants to get married in the UK and the next time she'll be returning to the UK is for my wedding, so she has said she wants to get married then too, within a month of my wedding. I can foresee this being stressful especially as she wants me to be maid of honour and the wedding will be a 2-hour drive from me. I imagine she'll need me to help out with the co-ordination/booking of things because she'll be in Ecuador beforehand. It seems terribly impractical.
I'm worried that this is going to be super stressful. I have had to accept that she won't be helping me out with my wedding at all or even attending my hen which is a shame but to have an additional wedding to deal with... I'm not sure I'll manage two and I'm worried it'll detract from the enjoyment of my own. It also means that OH and I can't honeymoon after the wedding because presumably I'll be needed to help out (and I can't go on honeymoon if she's planning to have her wedding then either).
AIBU? WWYD?
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To not want my friend to get married in the same month as me?
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Sal77 · 06/05/2013 08:08
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