please give me an honest opinion coz now I'm now feeling a bit like a pushy mum of a sort of adult child.
Eldest DS is19. He started his first job 8 weeks ago and tonight is 'the works night out'
He started yesterday with the I'm getting a cold I don't know if I'll go and making a million reasons not to attend, I said to him it nerves, going on your first works night out can be nerve wrecking but I think you should go
Tonight when he got home from work I listened to all the reasons he didn't/couldn't/wouldn't go then got a bit assertive and said 'Go , you are on a temporary contract and if you want it made permanent not turning up for a night out the management have paid for is going to make you look like someone that doesn't want to bond and that will go againest you' Saying stuff like 'No one really wants to spend a Saturday night with their work colleagues but sometimes that's just what you have to do
He got showered and is off out but now I'm thinking shit, perhaps I should have just let him make the choice himself and not go?
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SodaStreamy · 04/05/2013 21:05
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