Ok, where to start? We live in a mid terrace house which has been the family home for 24 years. There are eight of us currently living here, my mum and her husband, myself and my husband and our four children. On one side we have a family with two boys and on the other side a man who until recently had been living alone since his wife left him about three years ago.
A couple of summers ago he complained about my children playing in the back garden with a musical scooter that played a very repetitive crazy frog tune. I hadn't personally noticed it as a problem but obligingly removed the batteries.
Recently he has moved a girlfriend in with him and they have been playing music late at night, four or five nights a week that shakes the whole house and has had my young son up on a few occasions. Last night my dh went round to try and ask them to turn if down and it was so loud they didn't hear him at the door! He caught the woman as she was walking her dog this morning and asked her to keep it down at night as we have small children.
This evening she turned up on our doorstep and said that our arguments and noise are just as annoying and we'll just have to deal with it. Now I accept that with four children, and four adults during the day it can be a bit loud. I have a pubescent daughter so we get the tantrums and door slamming but this is all before bedtime and we have never had complaints from the other neighbours. She also said that due to one of our fence panels between us and other neighbours being down they keep getting dogs from several doors up in their garden and could we fix it. We had already done so but this riled me as her dog is forever in our garden and one of my children is terrified of dogs! She was very argumentative and basically told me that we would have to like it or lump it.
Now I am currently unwell, suffering with kidney disease and could have done without the attitude at tea time! An I being unreasonable? We are talking thumping bass at all hours that literally shakes the house. 3:30am the other day my mum noted it. We were trying to sort it amicably but she really upset me so if it happens again do I just ring the police? She was making out like we row all the time, we don't. No more than any family. So stressed right now as I feel that this is just going to make things worse.
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Sparklymommy · 02/05/2013 21:24
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