I have returned from maternity leave within the last few months and my small team has changed quite a lot. New boss who doesn?t work on site, new staff members, it?s got extremely cliquey and bitchy in a way that it wasn?t before.
Anyway, there are four members in our team, one of them works from home quite a lot and the other two are very close. Fine.
The problem is that the two of them are always sitting in the corner giggling with each other and sharing private jokes, which makes me feel uncomfortable. Especially as I am the only one left out most of the time. They make such an effort not to allow you to hear what they are saying it makes you paranoid and they admit they are being ?mean girls? and ?bitchy?.
The worst thing is they are constantly sending each other messages over our messenger systems which is obviously stuff which is even worse and they don?t want to be heard by others even more. But they do this while you?re having a conversation with one of them. You?ll be talking to one of them about something serious to do with work and they?ll suddenly burst out laughing in your face at something they?ve had messaged to them by the other one. It?s happening so often it makes me think that they?re taking the piss out of me whilst I talk to them using the messenger. It is making me feel undermined and insecure at work.
AIBU to think that they should either share the joke or not have it all and that it?s rude to be constantly giggling away like school children at jokes you?re not prepared to share with your colleagues? I?m not sure if I should say something or how I should handle this, it?s making me feel horrible.
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Kneebeefjerky · 02/05/2013 12:04
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