This morning I had to run an errand in central London and on the way back my 13-month old DS screamed in the tube non-stop (didn't want to eat/drink, took his jacket off.)
Later I went to meet my NCT friends in the park. I got there still tense from the incident.
DS was happy and smiley while we played in the kids area, but when I put him in his pram and we started walking round the park he started whingeing. I kept feeding him raisins to keep him happy. At some point that didn't work anymore - he was just screaming, full stop.
I assumed that all he needed was his afternoon nap and I was dying for him to just fall asleep. I was too annoyed and didn't really feel like taking him in my arms as a result. My friend suggested picking him up to comfort him. I gave up, picked him up - he stopped screaming straight away. I started crying out of sheer frustration.
He's 10kg, so I wasn't able to hold him for long. I wanted to put him back in the pram but he arched his back. My friend took him in her arms (while she kept pushing her own pram). I let her do it. She googoogaagaaa'ed with him for 5-10 min while we left the park.
When we parted ways, I took him from her arms but ... ... ... ... he clearly wanted to stay with her because he directed his arms towards her.
At that point lightening struck me. I wanted to die. I wanted to die because my heart was pierced (all those sleepless nights? all these showers with a screaming baby next to me? all these meals wolfed down because he was whingeing his pram? for nothing?). And my pride was hurt. My baby preferred another woman.
My friend was equally shocked. She just managed to say 'Oh it's because he knows you're going to put him back in the pram'.
AIBU to feel hurt?
and what about the pram situation - should I make it a principle that he should stay in there when I say so, or should I take him from his pram and carry him any time he whinges (which is 50% of the time)?
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AIBU?
To be upset because DS wanted to be in the arms of another mum?
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Azrael · 29/04/2013 22:39
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