For the past couple of years I have been passing down my DD's good used clothing to a friend with a DD a year younger. I have now unexpectedly had DD2. My friend has passed back anything which is still wearable, which has included lots of lovely stuff bought new for her DD. Should I carry on passing on my older daughter's things or WIBU to hang onto them now I have DD2? My friend has about the same household income as I do, but also has rich PILs and lots of extended family buying her DD presents.
My friend passes her DD1's clothes to me for my DD who is two years younger. Anything still wearable, plus anything new I've bought then goes back for her DD2, who is 2 years younger than mine. We've done this since my DD was born.