WIBU to go to the cinema with friends tonight?

[Messandmayhem]

My DH and I have both been looking forward to the new Iron Man movie. We cannot go together to see it as we can't get a babysitter for our 2 toddlers. He refuses to go alone to see it.
I have been invited to go tonight with a group of friends. He doesn't think it's fair of me to go. I think that we can go separately and be able to chat about the film. He was going to go on Saturday but feels awkward going alone.

I want to go. I can see his point, and I feel a bit bad, but if we don't go separately we won't see it until the DVD is out. As far as I'm concerned there's no point in holding out to go as a couple when that's almost certainly not possible.

WIBU to go?

[Sunnymeg]

Go, DH and I always end up going separately. It's fine as long as whoever sees the film first keeps quiet about it until you've both seen it.

[kinkyfuckery]

So you can't go together, so he'd rather neither of you saw it?

Can you not just download it? Legally of course

[UnicornHorn]

Why can't he just go with his friends on a different night?