Before I start, I'd just like to say I'm totally aware people have it way worse than we do, but I've totally had enough of this guy.
O.h works in a big laundry, he does the engineering and maintenance of the machines as well as the I.T work. He does get called onto working on the factory floor alot too, even though this element has been removed from his contract now that he's been trained to do the IT and engineering.
When our little girl was born, he was given 1 week paternity leave and 1 week holiday. We popped into his workplace a week before he was due back, which I regret now as his boss asked him to come back a few days earlier than planned (the place was pretty much falling apart, the computer systems were down and they'd had a fire somehow)
Christmas came and the holiday dates o.h had booked months in advance were refused, so he barely got to see l.o over her 1st christmas, which really upset me.
So we looked ahead to l.o's 1st birthday. His boss likes people to put in for their holiday a minimum of 2 weeks in advance in order for it not to be refused. So, with l.o's b.day in July, o.h submitted a form requesting 1 week off (this was submitted in February) and was told it would be very likely he'd be allowed it. So we began making plans to go away for the week and take l.o to Sea Life and just have a relaxing time away. So on Monday o.h emailed me to say that the holiday week had been refused and he's now been told to apply for the week before. I was virtually in tears as he'll now have to work on l.o's b.day (it wouldn't have upset me so much if he hadn't have missed l.o's first xmas too)
I got so angry and told him to ask his boss when would be convenient for him to have time off around his daughter's special day. I get an email reply telling me that he had to work til 8pm that night as the computers have gone crazy again... so I phoned him (he was in the same room as his boss) and started yelling down the phone that his boss has no loyalty to anyone and that he's not breaking his back for his boss as long as his boss is going to do absolutely nothing for anyone else.
There's been occasions in the past where people have booked their children's birthdays off a week in advance rather than the required two, but when it comes to my o.h he's not allowed it months in advance.
So WIBU to go and slap some sense into this man and slash o.h's tyres on the 1st day of the week my l.g turns 1 so he cant get to work??!!!
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To want to slap some sense into o.h's boss? Sorry for the long one!!
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dilanddan · 26/04/2013 11:25
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