Feeling a bit fed up with myself!
My boss told me today I'm being moved to a new position in the company. He tried to make it sound like a positive step - but really it's a demotion. I feel rubbish about this.
My parents always had such high expectations for me. I understand why they wanted me to do the best I could - but because I haven't lived up to what they expected I feel like a failure. They've never said anything but I imagine they're disappointed as I don't have the big high powered job they'd hoped I would. I've even kind of bent the truth with them about the job im in now so it sounds a little bit more important than it is -because I can't bear the sense of disappointment!
I was having a few drinks with a cousin of mine recently and after a few glasses of wine she told me she couldn't understand why I wasn't working in the job I'd trained for - that it was such a waste of all that training. I said the job didn't make me happy and I didn't want to spend my life doing a job I didn't like as it would be a waste of my life - (but the real reason was that I'm not cut out for that job)
I was good at exams in school - mainly because I spent way too much time studying and didn't really have many friends.
I think people think because im good at exams that im clever and will do well - but I don't think I'm intelligent. I'm not saying I'm stupid - as I must have some ability if I can do well in exams - but I think people who can think on their feet or think laterally are much more intelligent.
I trained for a profession that really I shouldn't have gone in to as it doesn't suit my personality at all. Because of the recession there were no jobs in that area so I managed to get a job in a related field. The job I got was much easier then the one I trained for but I've never got in to the swing of it - and just feel like I'm dropping down all the time to lower level jobs in the company.
I'm embarrassed because other people in the company will know I've essentially been demoted.
I know I shouldn't care what other people think but I can't help it
Has anyone else ever felt like this?
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gettngbetter · 25/04/2013 22:03
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