firstly, i love him so much, i adore him, he is gorgeous and he feels the same about me
but lately things are going wrong relationship wise
we have recently had a house move, was a mutual exchange to a council house that needed (and still needs) a lot of doing up. we have spent absolutely loads and are skint, really skint.
i am also pregnant with DC3 (its our second dc together, i have dc1 from prev relationship). although was planned, am very tired and emotional. im also suffering quite bad with depression (i posted about this the other week)
as i am shit with DIY and also PG, so he has been doing all the work on the house, every night after work he has been painting, laying floors, plastering, putting things together, building the kids beds, you name it. so i have been doing all the childcare and cooking and cleaning etc
i feel like irritated and angry with him all the time for no reason, we havent had sex for 2 weeks either. i feel ugly and fat whenever i am PG anyway so i don't FEEL like sex even though i want it. but cos we havent done it for so long it feels all weird when he tries it on.
we need a break from the kids and he keeps saying it too, even just an afternoon. but its like he always leaves it all to me to sort out every time we do anything just the 2 of us and it PISSES me off :( just once i want him to say, oh my mums having the DC on saturday (or whatever) and i dont have to organise the fucker all the time
anyway its been like this for weeks. we have never been like this before, when we were first together we were absolutely on fire, and i mean for liek the first 3 years even, not just the initial honeymoon period. we have only been together 5 years, i always thought we were "different" :(
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MoodyDidIt · 22/04/2013 19:31
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