More of a WWYD but I need some advice as it is quite complicated!
I have 2 friends 'x' & 'y' who used to go out but have now broken up. 'Y' is also a close friend of my DH.
I just got a phone call from X saying that Y has been telling mutual friends that I 'threw myself' at him the last time we went out but he turned me down.
I don't know what to do with this information and not sure whether I should confront him about it or not?
The way I can see it there are a few possibilities:
a) He lied and I didn't do anything
b) He isn't lying and I did do something but was so drunk that I cant remember doing it (I'm 99.9999% sure this isnt the case)
c) X (or someone else) is making things up to try and stir problems between me and Y so I wont talk to him anymore?
No idea what is going on or what to do about it!
Either way I'm pretty sure that if I mention it to DH he will be furious - either with his friend for making shit up about his wife or with his wife (me) for trying it on with his mate and I don't want to fuck up our relationship over this or ruin his friendship with Y.
I'm so sure that I didn't do this though - I was drunk but I dont think so drunk that I would totally forget doing something like that, I remember the conversations we were having that night, where we went, the people we met up with etc..
I can't recall seeing the person who Y apparently told about this, who then passed the message on to X at all.
AIBU to feel very confused and hurt by the whole thing?
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extremepie · 22/04/2013 15:08
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