My eldest son is from my previous relationship and is now 11 years old.
His dad is now asking for him to stay every other week with him. Which I've initially responded with a no.
Currently we have a every other weekend arrangement, where he'll stay from Friday to Sunday eve, and one evening every week where he goes for a few hours.
I want my son to have a place he calls home, so not fitting with a 50/50 arrangement.
I deal with all his school, medical and emotional needs and I don't know how I can now divide this. I also feel implementing this at 11 is too late and disruptive.
Also, my ex got my back up by saying that now his daughter is at school age their home life is accommadating for him to be able to do this. So it made me feel like this is an idea based on convenience.
Should I reconsider?
AIBU?
To not want my son to spend equal time with his dad?
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