There's been a lot of threads recently about what age to leave kids home alone etc and I'm just wondering what the general consensus is.
It seems that the majority think that a child of say 6 or 7 shouldn't be left in the house alone in case of fire/parent having an accident/some other unspeakable disaster, yet it seems to be more acceptable to allow kids of the same age to play out unsupervised, and I'm a bit confused as to what is acceptable?
My ds is 7. He's very sensible in the house, never touches anything he shouldn't and won't even get himself a drink without asking. I know I could safely leave him alone while I nipped to the shop up the road and he would still be parked in front of the TV when I got back. I never have done but I know I could.
However, loads of his friends play out on the local park. We live in a little village and it's pretty quiet, but there's a fairly busy through road to cross to get to the park, and I just wouldn't trust him on his own as he has a tendency to dilly dally on roads and isn't aware enough of cars coming out of driveways etc.
I guess my questions are these:
At what age would you let your 7 year old stay home alone for say 30 minutes?
At what age would you let them play out unsupervised?
If the answers to the above two questions are different, why? Do you perceive more dangers within your own home or on the street?
Would you be more likely to judge someone who left their kids home alone, or who let them play out alone and why?
Just curious why opinions differ that's all :)
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