I am pregnant with my third baby. I have a four year old from a previous relationship, and an 18 month old son with my partner. We are very happy about this pregnancy.
However, much as I love my dear mum, She keeps making random fucking comments and its starting to annoy and embarrass me.
First example being at the hospital for my early scan at epau, commenting loudly on the way out about how these grandchildren are getting far too expensive as this will be number five (my brother has a dd and one due next month). I was mortified. She should know better. I wouldn't have minded in private in a jokey manner, but in front of a room of women potentially waiting to be told they won't even have a baby?
Second example, various comments about number of children.
Third, similar to the first, I told my ex partner about the pregnancy, as my daughter can't hold her own piss being a typical 4 year old, and she knew as I had to take her for an appointment. My mum went to fetch dd (and told me this herself? Why she thinks I'd find it funny I don't know) and ex-ps parents said 'oh we hear congratulations are in order' and she proceeded to say 'oh I know, number five (including brothers two) I feel ancient, I've told her she needs to stop it' and made other comments I can't recall as I tuned out.
Aibu to want to point out that epau is not the place to make those comments, that I am one of three and to stop being a hypocrite. Is it really such a shock that at least two (youngest bro is only 17 so too young yet) of your children may have a similar number of children that you did?
That the 'expense' is not something I expect and have even suggested she not - she means Christmas - which I don't even celebrate. I celebrate new year, and we have presents then. She is welcome to avoid inflated prices by shopping in the sales and joining our celebrations (she hates Christmas!).
And lastly that ex-p parents were probably gob smacked. Exs mother is Jehovah's witness, his dad is very family orientated. They won't have expected that and I am mortified. She doesn't even like them, so why the need to go on like that I don't know, just accept their congratulations, they were being nice!
Sorry for the long list, I just need to know if I'm being overly sensitive - I wouldn't mind the odd joke, but its starting to get constant and its really making me feel awkward.
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DizzyZebra · 18/04/2013 02:07
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