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to be still p####ed off with dh for dropping a pint of milk on my pelvis this morning ?

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SUMMERFRUIT Wed 17-Apr-13 15:19:11

This morning, when Dh was about to go to work, I was still in bed. He was at the door, said that the milk was there. I said it will take you 2 seconds for him to put in the fridge.

Next thing I know, he came in the bedroom and threw the pint of milk on my pelvis. It hurt and made me cry a little.

I could see on dh's face that he thought that I had completely overreacted. He said sorry, saying he didn't mean to hurt me but I could see he was unrepentant. Arsehole.

So ????

NeoMaxiZoomDweebie Wed 17-Apr-13 15:20:24

What a wanker. Is he always like that??

Sugarice Wed 17-Apr-13 15:21:09

He threw a pint of milk on you whilst you were in bed? shock.

He is a massive twat, what else has he done to you Summer?

hopkinette Wed 17-Apr-13 15:21:53

Did he drop it or throw it?

KobayashiMaru Wed 17-Apr-13 15:22:03


Binkyridesagain Wed 17-Apr-13 15:22:50

Arsehole! Him not you. IS this normal behaviour for him?

Unacceptable Wed 17-Apr-13 15:23:56

That would be assault then.
Has this happened before?

Either way, not a relationship I'd be happy to remain in.

drjohnsonscat Wed 17-Apr-13 15:24:05

He tells you that the milk is there, so you can put it away?
He throws things at you?

This doesn't sound good Summer.

diddl Wed 17-Apr-13 15:26:09

As in a glass bottle?

Not that it really matters as surely throwing anything at someone is abuse?

TheYoniKeeper Wed 17-Apr-13 15:27:50


What on earth made him think that was an ok thing to do OP? hmm

Davsmum Wed 17-Apr-13 15:28:42

He sounds like an idiot.

TheYoniKeeper Wed 17-Apr-13 15:29:56

Oh...and the fact he doesn't really give a fuck that it hurt (I mean, he knew it was glass I presume and that it would hurt) makes him sound like a raging arsehole

Wishiwasanheiress Wed 17-Apr-13 15:31:53

He threw a pint of milk at u? Seriously???!

Not a massive step before its a fist luv! Get out NOW

ShanksYoni Wed 17-Apr-13 15:35:02

What the fuck?

Tell him to get out.

Are you okay?

TheYoniKeeper Wed 17-Apr-13 15:39:24

Oh, forgot the big fat YANBU!


Tailtwister Wed 17-Apr-13 15:40:03

Good grief, that's awful! Is this kind of thing in character for him?

I had a bf at university who threw a portable tv at me once. It landed on my hip and it was bloody painful. Unfortunately I couldn't see how abusive his behaviour was, but my friend could. She called campus security, but he said it was an accident (and I supported his story).

I would advise you to think very carefully about whether you want to continue with the relationship, especially if he's done this kind of thing before.

TigOldBitties Wed 17-Apr-13 15:41:25

It doesn't sound like he meant to hurt you, its a point of milk.

Obviously be pissed off that he did hurt you but he said sorry and he didn't mean it.

Probably just a bit of an accident, he said he didn't realise it would hurt that much.

SUMMERFRUIT Wed 17-Apr-13 15:42:35

it was a plastic pint of milk, he threw it slowly on my pelvis as a joke as he says. He didn't think apparently.

He never does that sort of things, he was just a big fat twat. And I'll show him this thread.

HarderToKidnap Wed 17-Apr-13 15:45:39

Sounds like the sort of thing DH and I might do (plastic pint of milk lobbed slowly onto tummy which is covered by thick duvet, rather than glass pint bottle hurled with force, obviously). I can't imagine it hurt or that he meant it to.

CSIJanner Wed 17-Apr-13 15:46:38

Tig - RTFT. He threw it. Accident my arse! Could have left it on the side or even just inside the door. He didn't. He intentionally threw it. The man is a twunt.

Summer - has he acted out like this before?

TheYoniKeeper Wed 17-Apr-13 15:46:46

haha very different grin

But still, shitty. Show him this thread, just for luck.

TheYoniKeeper Wed 17-Apr-13 15:47:32

(though tbh I'd still think he was a bit of a wanker for need for it & it is disrespectful IMO)

LaurieFairyCake Wed 17-Apr-13 15:49:32

Sounds like you have someone who is annoyed at you getting to lie in bed while he is up and out to work.

Which of course makes him a massive wanker.

TigOldBitties Wed 17-Apr-13 15:50:55

I've read the fucking thread CSI, why don't you read my fucking post properly.

It is quite obvious, that I am saying it was an accident that he hurt her. I haven't disputed that he threw it at her, I've said he probably didn't realise that it would hurt that much therefore the hurt caused was an accident.

It was a plastic pint, you would hardly think that would induce tears. He's apologised.

TheYoniKeeper Wed 17-Apr-13 15:51:43

Reread your OP.

Tbf you could've worded it a little nicer but still, a bit of an over reaction on his part.

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