Aargh where to start......
DH and I have been together for 13 years, married for almost 7 and have 3 DCs.
I am SAHM and he is self employed (this is a recent thing since birth of dc3).
DH has lots of "projects" - mostly vehicular including a car which he had when we met that has now been off the road for over 10 years. It is a nice car, a collectors car if it were on the road, and probably worth a fair bit.
We have moved house 4 times in 5 years and transported this car with us. I have paid for a new roof, windscreen and various other bits over the years, with DHs solemn promise that "this summer" it will be on the road. He's been saying this since 2009, and it's still not on the road - not even close.
It needs some welding doing, and a f other bits, then it can be MOTd taxed and insured. Great, except it only has 4 seats and there are 5 of us - so we won't all fit in.
DH also has a motorbike, which until march 2012 had also been off the road for a couple of years. Last year for his birthday, I put it through an mot, taxed it and insured it. He went out a few times, took dd1 on a road trip, and that's it. Since end of July last year it's just been stood in the garage and is now SORNd again.
DH also has a camper van, which is fully roadworthy and he drives it almost daily (not for work - I'm getting to that bit!) I love the van, it's great and gives us loads of freedom to get out and about.
I have a car (the family car). Pretty standard 7 seater which we look after as it is our daily method of transport.
DH made some noises about getting rid of his motorbike last year as he didn't enjoy the road trip and felt he didn't have time for it really. I agreed, but then he changed his mind and said he didn't want to get rid, but change it for something else. Again I agreed, but made him promise not to buy another project.
When DH goes to work, he generally borrows my parents work van. He can chuck his tools in and go. No problem. Except our driveway is not big enough for all these vehicles.
Today I had to leave my car out on the road, and it had the wing mirror clipped by another's driver. No damage, but not really the point.
A few weeks ago, I suggested that DH get rid of his car and motorbike, and use the money to buy himself a little works van, instead of borrowing my parents van and then moaning when he has to return it and take all his tools out.
He said that was like asking me to sell all my nice shoes and buy a new iron
I'm at the point where this could be a deal breaker.
Should he sell the car and bike, or should I just shut up and put up with it?
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AIBU?
AIBU or is DH? (Long, sorry)
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BabylonReturns · 16/04/2013 21:15
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