Dh and I have one ds aged 12. During the school term weekdays, ds needs to leave the house at about 7.45 am to catch his bus to school. I set my alarm for 6.30 and get up between 6.30 and 6.45. I can then be up to make sure ds is up, and that he has had breakfast/got everything for school etc. Ds sets his alarm for 6.30 and again for 7, and if he hasn't surfaced by 7 I wake him up. Dh sets his clock radio for 6.30 and it burbles away for about 15 minutes, then switches itself off. He doesn't usually get up until at least 7.30, often later, but in term times I don't mind this, as I am getting up anyway.
In holiday times, unless we have anything specific where we need to get up early, ds and I prefer to get up later (after 8 if possible). Dh still gets up after 7.30, often after 8. Ds and I don't set our alarms until 8 or so, but dh still has his clock radio coming on at 6.30. This wakes me up, and I find it difficult to get to sleep again, and it has also woken ds up some days (even though he isin a different room).
Today I asked if dh would mind not setting his alarm so early in holiday weeks. He thinks I am being unreasonable as he likes to listen to the radio in the mornings, even though it comes on at least an hour before he will be getting up. When I asked him if he though I was being unreasonable in asking him to change the time it comes on in school holiday weeks, he said he thought I was being very controlling.
What do you all think?
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SoMuchToBits · 16/04/2013 20:24
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