I had found my dad 5 years ago he has no other children other then me but for the last 20 odd years brought up another ladys children and her name is ellan, when i knocked on dads door that first time he invited me in to there home saying look ellan its xxxx so she obviously knew off me, she was pleasent and we exchanged phone numbers. Any way next time dad phoned me he said ellan said i cant see you so we will have to see each other in secret. So he came to my home and place of work to see me. He retired last year and so was with ellan full time and i no longer seen him. My other family his sisters and brother kept me informed of his well being. And monday i received an email from my uncle saying that ellan has told family that if they inform me that my dad has cancer and is having his stomach removed this week she will make it awkward for them to see him. Uncle says hes not got long to live. And he had to tell me as im dads flesh and blood. He also said that if i was to go to the house i would be told by her to go away politly as dad is no longer mobile. So doni turn up at the hospital or should i leave it but i feel i need to at least say goodbye to him. They are not married but i would think she is down as next of kin. X
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Goingunderfast · 16/04/2013 12:13
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