OK this is driving me bonkers and I need some perspective.
I have a nanny/groom who works 9-12 and 2-5. She smokes which I knew before she started and we agreed that she would not smoke around DD (she doesn't smoke around the horses either as it's dangerous when handling them and also hay is very flammable).
I am annoyed that she takes so many cigarette breaks. Typically she arrives for work at 9am but has a cigarette break straight off so she can't help out until 9.15. She then takes another cigarette break somewhere in the middle of the morning and tries to leave at 11.45 to have another cigarette break (she doesn't smoke in her car, but only lives 5 minutes drive away so I don't know why she doesn't smoke at home). Same thing in the afternoon, has a cigarette break as soon as she arrives, another one in the middle and one before she leaves.
She smokes so often she now smokes around DD on walks - DD on one hand, cigarette on the other. She is trying to hide the cigarettes from DD but I don't see how this will work longterm.
She did say when she started work that she was trying to quit but that was two years ago and if anything she smokes a lot more now. I appreciate smoking is addictive and she doesn't have control over it and I don't smoke but AIBU? Should I just live with it?
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How many cigarette breaks while at work?
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Booboostoo · 16/04/2013 09:12
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