Right, we booked in December to go away with friends this Christmas, they don't have children but have been away with them before. Was all booked and agreed. About a month ago it was mentioned that another friend (closer to them) was also coming, not a problem, had idea she might be as husband likely to be away over xmas. Yesterday it was mentioned to me that another friend was coming and due to mix of dogs (we all have several and very dog friendly place are staying) they had booked another cottage for them down the road (the reasoning on mix of dogs never really made sense to me). Friend had got bit confused over cost of cottages and i said if that was the case we couldnt afford to go (double cost if they werent staying where planned). She appologised and said would find solution. I then questioned why she would book somewhere else without even mentioning it to me and asked how she would have felt if the people she had planned to go away with then announced they were no longer coming with you and staying up the road. said the whole reason to go away was had all said would rather spend time together than with family (we have 3 children so big decison not to spend with grandparents/cousins), due to that we did not want to essentially go away to sit on our own in the evenings over xmas as can do that at home for free and whole point was to all be together.
I then asked for clarification as to what sparked the need to book another cottage as became clear the mix of dogs wasnt the real reason. friend got very defensive and basically refused to say anything saying she had cocked up and the reason no longer mattered and either we want to go or we don't but they do want to spend xmas together as planned...
honestly don't know how to feel now and appreciate any thoughts - am i being too sensitive taking this personally?
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fairimum · 15/04/2013 22:28
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