Hi all. I would like to have your opinions on this please, as I suspect I am being a little unreasonable so may need some sense talking into me.
My DS is going up to middle school in Sept of this year. His first day is a Wednesday. My sister is getting married that Friday. I have no problem at all with that, she has a tiny budget and Fridays are much cheaper. I will be booking the day off myself. However, she wants me to book a day's holiday for my DS so he can attend the ceremony, rather than have my other half pick him up after school to go to the reception.
I wouldn't have any problems with this any other week of the year, but I am feeling reluctant to take him out of school in his very first week - his 3rd day in fact, as the title says. I don't want him to start off the year a day behind, and I think the first few days are important for finding your place in the class, way round the school, and friend set.
I also don't think it would make any difference whether he's at the ceremony or not. He's not a page-boy and has no role within the wedding (there are so many nieces and nephews, they reasonably decided to not have any of them involved to prevent arguments), so his absence wouldn't really be noticeable.
So, am I being a bit unreasonable? I haven't given her an answer yet, I wanted to take some time to think about it as I don't want to be out of order! I don't think she is being unreasonable at all by the way, she just doesn't fully understand how I feel as she doesn't yet have children.
Your replies would be greatly appreciated! Thank you :-)
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DryCounty79 · 15/04/2013 11:00
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