My mother has recently been diagnosed with dementia and has a very poor short term memory. She wants the two of us to have a lovely expensive holiday together which is in theory a really nice idea. But becasue she cant remember or comprehend anything she's told she asks the same questions repeatedly this is exhausting and also eventually when I've answered the same thing 50 times (I exaggerate not) sometimes I snap. If at any stage I gently or not point out that I've already asked this she's becomes aggressive.
I just dot know what to do obviously if this holiday is successful it will be a lovely memory but if not I will at the very least need another holiday or at the worst might murder her!
Just to add nurses don't make good carers of their own family.
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AIBU?
AIBU to hesitate to go away with my mum?
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tirednurse · 12/04/2013 09:34
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