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To think that church child protection officer should attend the family service

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ReallyTired Thu 11-Apr-13 22:49:50

Our church has a child protection officer who never attend the family service. She goes the 8am service where there are never any children. The only reason she is the child protection officer is that she is a retired social worker. She has no involvement with Sunday school activites, the choir and knows none of the families who go to the later service.

For the past few months the child protection officer (C) has not been to church becuase she has cancer. Understandly she has not been able to carry out the role of child protection officer due to being ill.

I feel that parish church should train up a second child protection officer to cover C's sickness. The priest was very rude to me and said that C would be deeply hurt and there are no child protection issues in our church. I feel that a lack of proper safeguarding is unacceptable and C would probably agree with me.

Anthracite Fri 12-Apr-13 13:54:12

Safeguarding does not just protect against abuses perpetrated by church members. This is a small part of the initiative.

Young people may disclose to youth leaders of issues with their family, at school, or even social networking - all outside church but something the church safeguarding team have to act on.

SmellieWellies Fri 12-Apr-13 11:23:49

Also, if you are worried, you can organise safeguarding training yourself. You diocese can help you with it, as others have said.

SmellieWellies Fri 12-Apr-13 11:22:33

Our CPO is shared between 3 churches due to severe lack of people, and she does not come to any of the services either. She occasionally comes to a PCC meeting, but we never see her otherwise. It never occurred to me that this was a problem.

Mind you, the only children we have at our little church are mine.

Send you own forms off, or ask someone from the PCC to do it.

jomaynard Fri 12-Apr-13 11:17:04

If you are C of E then the Vicar/Priest also has responsibility for CP, and should be trained. There is also a chain to report things to. In our area there is the Diocesian CP person's phone number prominently displayed.

WilsonFrickett Fri 12-Apr-13 10:27:03

I fail to see how you can be so upset about this (which you clearly are) yet continue to work in a way which you believe is wrong. Stop doing the Sunday School.

kinkyfuckery Fri 12-Apr-13 10:16:39

You're concerned that there is noone overseeing child protection? You're concerned as abuse has been historically common within the church? You're concerned that you're the only adult and you haven't been CRB checked?

Am I missing something? Surely you just have to ensure you don't abuse the children? Do you need close supervision to do that? confused

ImAlpharius Fri 12-Apr-13 10:12:34

When you approached your Priest was it to complain about the Safeguarding Officer not attending services or was it to ask him to send off your form?
He should be able to send the form off, having checked ID, no ned to talk to the lady at all if she is not there.
Are you on the PCC?

BackforGood Fri 12-Apr-13 10:05:59

YABU with your original question.
YANBU to think that while this lady is indisposed, the procedures and processes should be ignored.
You are, however, in an ideal position to ensure that doesn't happen, and yet you aren't doing so, so YABU to complain about it.
If you feel as strongly about it as you seem to do, then surely you can say "I am unable to take Sunday School as no-one has processed my CRB, and no-one is sitting in with me, to be the 2nd adult" ~ then, because the Church wants the class to continue, it kind of forces the issue.

jomaynard Fri 12-Apr-13 10:03:23

Cp is not just paedophiles!

metimenowplease Fri 12-Apr-13 10:03:22

You sound very selfish OP. That poor woman. If you feel so stromgly about your CRB status, either find another way to get the forms sent off, or quit, and use the extra time to offer some Christian support to the CPO.

jomaynard Fri 12-Apr-13 10:02:33

If you have concerns then talk to the Diocese or similar higher level CP officer. My Diocese runs monthly CP training free for all people who work with children. In some Churches it is compulsory to attend, in others they just highly recommend.

LadyBeagleEyes Fri 12-Apr-13 09:59:33

Gosh, if that's what church has come to these days, you know, hunting down paedophiles rather than worship, I'm glad I'm an athiest.

jomaynard Fri 12-Apr-13 09:58:37


The role is not to play policeman for CP issues, but to be the person anyone with CP concerns can go to. Probably also training and awareness raising in all those who work with children.

In someways having no contact with children would give her independence in judgement.

freddiemisagreatshag Fri 12-Apr-13 09:57:21

Well if it's that much of a big deal for you, why are you doing Sunday School?

ReallyTired Fri 12-Apr-13 09:55:33

"And try having some empathy for the poor woman with cancer. The reason she's not been at church is because she HAS CANCER.

Don't churches do caring for your fellow man/woman, the Good Samaritan and all that anymore?"

What about empathy for the victims who have experienced child abuse in church? It is naivity to think that these attrocious acts cannot happen in the future?

Child protection is far more than sexual abuse. Its dealing with bullying, neglect, physical abuse as well as other areas. Safeguarding vunerable adults is important as well.

The problem is not empathy for someone having cancer, its not having proper safeguarding proceedures. The issue is the priest not accepting that child protection can go wrong. People (like Jimmy Saville) can appear to be lovely and its extremely easy for churches to get caught out. The harm that child abuse causes should not be underestimated.

I have had no safeguarding training from the church whatsoever and as far as I know no one else has had safeguarding training. If I had some safeguarding training then I would understand the role of the child protection officer and what my responsiblites are.

Anthracite Fri 12-Apr-13 08:32:28

Administration of Sunday School (and other children's groups) is not the responsibility of the CPLO. That is the responsibility of the Children's and Families Worker, Youth Pastor (if you have one) and ultimately the Vicar. This team, probably via the church administrator, will keep track of CRB checks.

I think my church pretty much follows diocesan policy regarding children's work. If someone volunteers more than once a term, they have to be CRB checked. All groups have to have at least one female and one male leader. If there are insufficient leaders, the children stay in church.

The CPLOs run training for children's leaders and helpers. This has to be on a three year cycle. At our church, we do Safeguarding training for anyone over 14, as most of our teens help out with children's work either regularly throughout the year, or at the annual Holiday Club.

Anthracite Fri 12-Apr-13 08:18:52

Our child protection officers don't attend the family service either. I've never thought it to be a problem. One is a social worker and the other a police officer. They are introduced to parents at the beginning of the year parents' meeting.

It is not their job to spot safeguarding issues. It is their job to listen to the concerns of anyone who has a safeguarding concern, and then decide how to deal with it and liaise with authorities.

I think it is probably for the best that there is some distance between them and the families, tbh (be in different home groups, coffee mornings ...), so that they are as neutral as possible.

What is important is that all children's workers are trained in safeguarding so that they know how to identify potential abuse, listen to children and respond appropriately.

BreastmilkCrucifiesAFabLatte Fri 12-Apr-13 07:32:53

Actually I agree with the OP. The CP person should be someone in a position to be able to make his/her face known to children and families, really so that members of the congregation would find him/her approachable with any issues.

However, much more worrying is your involvement without a CRB which SHOULD NOT be allowed. So the church both need to give the poor CP lady sone support (how about a deputy to attend family services and chat to the parents and kids) and make sure thay everyone who needs one has a CRB

YoniYoniYoniOiOiOi Fri 12-Apr-13 06:54:12

Don't be doing the Sunday school,without the CRB.

I can't do that I'm not checked is easy enough to say.

And try having some empathy for the poor woman with cancer. The reason she's not been at church is because she HAS CANCER.

Don't churches do caring for your fellow man/woman, the Good Samaritan and all that anymore?

chrome100 Fri 12-Apr-13 06:45:23

A CRB is hardly worth the paper it's written on. I don't think there's an issue with you doing the Sunday School without it. I also don't think the CP needs to be physically present at all times; she is not a police officer who is there to keep an eye on things! I think YABU.

sashh Fri 12-Apr-13 03:54:17

Is this church on a remote island in the middle of an ocean?

I thought not. Get the CPO from a neighboring parish or someone at the diocese to send your forms off.

teacherandguideleader Fri 12-Apr-13 00:56:26

I was going to suggest that it may be better if the CPO wasn't always around - if they became 'friendly' with any families, I wonder if it could alter their judgement of situations rather than them being impartial and always acting on the best interests of the child.

randomtask Fri 12-Apr-13 00:43:07

In my experience (church childrens & youth work) the CPO should not be involved in any of the actual work as otherwise it causes problems if something comes up. They have to check everyone has the right paperwork/permissions, ask every so often that you are complying with rules & that's it. Also, it is good practice to never have one adult with any amount of children to the point we had to change our serving system-ratios also need to be kept to & no-one should ever be alone with any child.

Different churches do different things, even different Dioceses. We tend to notice the news on CofE child abuse (where clergy are now being caught up with) seems to be mainly from the same Diocese who about 10 years ago I was horrified by the attitude/organisation of their youth & child officer (arrived at something with lots of children, hadn't looked at forms, hadn't checked about medication & didn't have a first aid kit). Needless to say they've improved now...

teacherandguideleader Fri 12-Apr-13 00:27:23

Firstly, I cannot believe you are working with children without a CRB (or whatever it is called now). My Guide one ran out and my new one was delayed the only reason I was allowed to continue running the unit in the meantime was because I had only just had one done for school. If you are volunteering for the Sunday School, there shouldn't be a cost.

Secondly, whilst school is different, I haven't seen my CPO for Guides in well over a year. My procedures are all in place. If parents have a concern about another child, they would come to me in the first instance. If I needed to pass something on, I have the email of the CPO. I cannot see why I would need her present. The girls are at no risk whatsoever from me, and whilst you can never know another person 100%, I would say the same of my assistant.

Startail Fri 12-Apr-13 00:04:56

CPO is just a hat someone has to wear. Hopefully they have read the rules and can answer any CP questions that arise and organise CRB checks if necessary.

It's highly unlikely they are going to be at every service and every event ensuring the policies are followed.

Sadly it's an area in which there are no guarantees, no way of being 100% sure what goes on in the houses and on the PCs of very respectable people.

YANBU not to like doing Sunday school alone.

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