Hi Ladies,
This is a long one. Basically my EP left us when DS was 9 weeks old, He has barely been involved since, a couple of visits organised by the solisters in an attempt to keep it out of court, resulted in it being cancelled by him for one reason or another. We had a court date for January 24 this year, and he was a no show, but he did send a letter telling the court that It was a waste of his time, attending, and a waste of there time too.
Now, with all that being said he has had four weeks contact with my now 3yr old DS all of which has gone really well, now he has asked if he can have his 2 hour Sunday contact unsupervised, at the local park. I'm really confused, I don't know what to do for the best.
I think my son would love going to the park, he likes playing with his Dad but there have been threats to remove him from my care in the past. I have a residency order in my favour. But im still going to be panicking for the two hours he has gone. So, Do I let him go, and trust he will bring him home. Do I refuse to let him go, risk ex throwing a tantrum and cancelling completely (effecting my son)
If I did let him go and he didn't bring him home, what can I do.
Thanks in advance.
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LouiseSmith · 11/04/2013 10:47
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