Hi
I found out last year that DP owes £30,000 to his parents. The loan was taken against his house.
This loan was taken when he was married, he has since devoirced and kept the house (which was his and in his name) and got all of the debt.
So his parents are now talking about starting payments again (they stopped when he split with his ex as he couldn't afford the morgage, rent on a flat for him. Matinance and that).
We have been together 2 yrs and lived together 1. DP has no money, his expenditures meet his income, because of this I am the one currently saving so we can start ttc, I pay for food ect. THis I don't mind as I veiw it as a House hold income and when we have DC's that's how it should be. He sold the house but it made no money so none of the debt was paid off.
So my question is, AIBU to want to know who's debt it is (DP EXW was decleared banKrupt before they married) and what is was for?
Iam going to be the one paying it back as DP can't afford any extra outgoings. To me this is just an unbeliveble amount of money and I feel sick just thinking about it.
Will it make it worse if I actually end up paying for the big wedding the couldn't afford or the child they couldn't afford?
I don't see any other way, if his parents want the money back and he has none it is going to fall to me
Sorry about spelling, I'm dyslexic and on my phone (not that spell check helps as all the words look the same to me!)
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Helping DP paying off old debt
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KittenCamile · 10/04/2013 19:58
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