Have name changed for his as I'm expecting to get flamed and fair enough, bring it on if you think I'm a big fat hypocrite, but I'm really wrestling with this. I'm a life-long agnostic bordering on atheist from the point of view of actually believing that there is a God and that Jesus was His son etc. Wasn't brought up in the Church, although I went to a CofE primary and I would struggle to believe in this stuff being literally true even if I had been.
There are also a number of things that I find troubling about modern Christianity, primarily relating to teachings about the role of women and sexuality. I know CofE tends to be more progressive on these points than Catholicism or evangelical Christianity but still a lot of this sticks in the craw.
And yet, there's a lot about Christian teachings which appeals to me from the perspective of life management and general philosophy: I like the doctrine of forgiveness, inclusiveness, looking out for the weaker and more vulnerable members of society etc. I feel that although I wasn't ever raised formally as a Christian I benefitted spiritually and emotionally from having these things filter into my education and the environment I lived in. Also, I am attracted to the idea of community and I think Church communities are probably quite good for children as long as the teaching isn't too strident. And I think children benefit from having a "spiritual" upbringing with lower case s.
So, would I be a big fat hypocrite and confuse my DD into the bargain? or is it excusable to do this if you don't technically "believe"?
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would I be unreasonable to raise my daughter in a loose CofE setting if I don't believe in God?
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