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To judge a man on his sex choices.

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parrelluniverse Mon 08-Apr-13 21:02:57

Just back from a date.
nice enough chap, would have seen him again if it wasnt for the fact that he confessed to the following

- when he was 24 ( hes now 30) he drove 4 hours to meet a 66 year old woman at her house, at 1am. where she answered the door in a corset... and then even though she was ' all dry' he had sex with her as he thought he might as well

- when he was 27 he met up with a nana, who had a 71 year old husband but liked younger men on skype..... and had sex with her.

- generally just seemed to have the attitude and said he would get it where he could.

he wants to see me again, he kept trying to come back to mine, i said no. ive now said no more dates.

Ive not judged harshly, i know i havent. it would be pretty crap of me to go there, thats what i think

am i wrong to judge

AnyFucker Mon 08-Apr-13 21:04:59

How on earth did the conversation get around to those topics ?

You dodged a bullet there, methinks

Unless you are a sex-starved octogenarian with boundary issues ? wink

BassDownLow Mon 08-Apr-13 21:05:07

Its weird that he told you all this on a date. Sounds like a creep.

SirBoobAlot Mon 08-Apr-13 21:05:18

Sounds like he has a thing for older women... Fine for him, but equally fine for you to not find it attractive. Though the pestering to come back to yours would have put me off.

Hope the next date goes better!

HairyGrotter Mon 08-Apr-13 21:05:35

Erm, I'd judge him. End of. He has warped views on sex, and what sort of psycho says things like that on a first date let alone in normal conversation...wasn't Wayne Rooney was it?

janey68 Mon 08-Apr-13 21:06:52

I'd steer clear- he'd soon be trading you in for an older model anyway

kinkyfuckery Mon 08-Apr-13 21:07:58

Why on earth would he think that was first-date conversation?

The fact that he thinks it's appropriate to mention that on a first date is worse than the fact he did it, in my opinion.

Fairypants Mon 08-Apr-13 21:08:13

I would say he had a thing for really old women. Walk away from that mans fetish- it would be bad enough to have a guy cheat with some masochist or something but there's no getting over being dumped for a granny.
Unless your in the 80+ age bracket in which case you're just his type smile

StrawberrytallCAKE Mon 08-Apr-13 21:09:38

Yes you should judge and you should also never see him again. He just told you he's a sex pest who will shag anything...not the top of most people's tick list for a partner, is it yours?

Undertone Mon 08-Apr-13 21:10:48

Yeah - takes all sorts to make a world, and his sexual preferences aren't what's problematic here - it's his slightly callous recounting of said adventures to you, and his pushy attitude. Could have admitted he gets hot under the collar about cavity wall insulation, and that would be FINE, but a creep is a creep.

HollyBerryBush Mon 08-Apr-13 21:11:02

FWIW I wouldn't date anyone a second time who discussed previous partners.

parrelluniverse Mon 08-Apr-13 21:11:12

no. fuck no.

i just feel a bit sick really, hes cross i wont see him again.....

everlong Mon 08-Apr-13 21:13:56

Message withdrawn at poster's request.

StrawberrytallCAKE Mon 08-Apr-13 21:14:29

Is he telling you this via text or phone? Just ignore, block your calls, don't answer...who cares if he's cross? You owe him nothing.

Loislane78 Mon 08-Apr-13 21:18:12

Errrr WTF?

Perhaps that's bad turn of phrase in this context.

Surely this is a joke. Even guys who will take it any which way don't get bragging rights on Nana's?

parrelluniverse Mon 08-Apr-13 21:19:35

no, face to face, in person. in costas.

he gave me details..... intimate details, i asked him why on earth, and why he was telling me. and he jsut said you have to take it where you can get it.

i feel sick. and insulted.

AnyFucker Mon 08-Apr-13 21:20:57

had you been having conversations a sexual nature before you decided to meet up ?

WorraLiberty Mon 08-Apr-13 21:21:02

Bloody hell

Imagine if a MNetter overheard the conversation as it was happening and started a thread? grin

No bugger would believe a conversation like that on a date.

AnyFucker Mon 08-Apr-13 21:21:06


StepAwayFromTheEcclesCakes Mon 08-Apr-13 21:22:27

A lucky escape methinks

Badvoc Mon 08-Apr-13 21:23:30

Was it Wayne Rooney?

Lucyellensmum95 Mon 08-Apr-13 21:23:35

yuck lucky escape

HairyGrotter Mon 08-Apr-13 21:24:08

How on earth you didn't walk out with a look of disgust, I've no idea? I'd have laughed in his face and ripped him a new one.

What on earth was he thinking?!

twentythirteen Mon 08-Apr-13 21:24:18

Op, someday you will post on one of those threads about the weirdest date ever, and win, hands down. You poor thing. Make yourself comfy and do some brain bleach, whatever works for you.

parrelluniverse Mon 08-Apr-13 21:25:20

its really grim isnt it.

this is off the back of a pretty horrific weeks worth of dating and more cock shots than anyone needs to see in their life, so i think its time to call it a day.

absolute lowest of low i think that was....

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