DH & I just had a significant birthday. His sis and DM and other sibs clubbed together to send us to a beautiful boutique hotel in Pembrokeshire. SIL & BIL coming to look after our 2 kids. So kind & thoughtful.
Except ... Of the two days we would spend about 10-11 hours travelling. And we'd probably have to drive ( the train is doable but involves two connections with little room for manouvre on way back ).
It's just not a distance (240 miles) I'd ever consider travelling for a weekend away. We live the wrong side of London for the M4 and could spend 2 hrs just getting as far as Heathrow on a Friday arvo. Same issue in the way back.
SIL chose this place as they have been to it & loved it. But they live a lot closer. She has even chosen us a particular room . But the more we look into the logistics the more we think that the good will be taken out of it by all that travelling.
There's still time for them to cancel & we could book something else within 2-3 hours of here. But how to do it without causing offence. Or should we just suck it up?
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To tell my in laws that the weekend away they have booked for DH & I is just too far away?
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Turniphead1 · 08/04/2013 18:35
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