Sorry the post may be a bit long...
I have three DC. Two are with an ex whom I split up with ten years ago (various reasons). Since then we've all moved on. I have another DS with my now DP and the ex has another DD with is gf wife.
The children haven't seen their dad in person since Christmas. His relationship with them is very inconsistent, he can go months without seeing them, lets them down when he agrees to because he 'realizes' he had other things planned and never rearranges.
I have always kept the door open for the children to see their dad as I believe it is their choice.
Since the children have had extra siblings they have decided off their own backs to call my ds2 their 'brother' and my ex's DD as their 'half sister.' I have always referred to both as 'brother' or 'sister' but DD especially will use the two terms.
So last night he phones out of the blue to say he and his gf have got married a few weeks back. DS1 asked why he wasn't invited and was quite plainly told:
'I didn't think you'd be interested, especially since you and DD call x (his other dd) your half sister.'
AIBU to feel angry about the way ex has gone about all this? He has three kids at the end of the day and they should all be as equal as each other. The kids probably wouldn't have gone - but they should have been given the choice and at least notified beforehand?
And as for his reason well...
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AIBU?
At ex getting married and not telling the children - giving his reason of 'half sister' as to why
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AGivenNickname · 08/04/2013 12:42
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