Last year I became a single mum after a messy split bastard left me for ow At the same time my dm was going through a divorce so it made perfect sense for us to move in together, save on rent, bills etc, would give us both company and she could help out with dd.
The last year has been brilliant she has really helped me with childcare and moral support. However my younger brother has now moved in with us and I find it really hard to live with him, he is messy, inconsiderate and just lays around all the time. I do get on with him and he is brilliant with dd I just cant live with him.
I feel like the time has come for me and dd to move on anyway, we need our own house and she needs her own room (we have been sharing since db moved in) I mentioned this to dm and she seems horrified - she loves having me and her grandaughter living with her. I explained we would have to move eventually.
The thing is dm struggles for money and im worried how she will afford to run the house without my portion of the rent/bills. Db does pay her board but not as much as I am paying for me and dd.
I feel guilty for potentially leaving her in a bad situation financially but also need my own space! Aibu to just find my own place now? Any advice welcome.
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JazzyPop · 06/04/2013 22:47
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