DP and I had to scrap our car last week after it died again and it wasn't worth repairing anymore.
MIL offered to lend DP and I some money to buy a new car which was gratefully received and we both agreed to pay back.
Started looking for a car but I have had to go to my dad's for a couple of days so told DP he could still look and to keep me involved.
Before leaving we agreed car must be an automatic, mot'd and taxed for a couple of months at least.
So imagine my surprise when DP phones today and told me he has brought a car, without consulting me, it only has mot till the end of the month and no tax, so not what we agreed, apprently dealership has verbally agreed to mot it for another year next week, however I hold no hope as if they were going to mot it they would have before selling it.
So basically DP has gone my back and bought a car with no mot and no tax and spent the entire budget on this, that I have to help pay back.
AIBU to be furious with DP and seriously be reconsidering our relationship when partnership obviously means nothing and he does what he wants as soon as my back is turned?
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to think this is the opposite of partnership?
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ruledbyheart · 06/04/2013 16:09
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