dp live together, have done for a while. No kids. I work 15 mile away from our home and it takes 2 hours each way to/from work on public transport. Today I worked a corker of a shift, long and very busy. If dp picks me up from work in his car it takes 30 mins on motorway to get home as opposed to my usual 2 hours hellish two bus journey. I had headache and was shattered after work, so I text dp and asked him if he minded picking me up from work when he finished. He was at work which is about 20 mins drive from home and 30 mins from my work. Dp refused, said he was tired as he'd be on since 5am, and came on home.
Now, I am really mad because I think of how much I do for DP, and he cant frigging pick me up this once.
He'd been home 2.5 hours when I arrived home. All he'd done was make the bed. He hadn't washed the pots from last night, filled the pets water up (was almost empty) put the rubbish out, fuck all, but then he never, ever does. There's some wet washing in hallway ready to be put on clothes horse, but he's not fucking done it. I don't mind doing it all, but come on, a favour for me once in a while for cleaning his crap up, cooking him a meal, cleaning his clothes etc...he honestly does not lift a finger, and to top it all off, he'll leave empty cartons out, not put in the bin, worktops unclean when he's chopped something. Tonight he left an empty box of his tablets on the table when the bin is two feet away, and empty blisters of tablets too. What really pissed me off though is that we have pets that crawl the floor. Time and time again I've seen he's dropped a tablet and not picked it up. I've asked him to be very careful coz if the little fluffies overdose I'll be very upset.
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annabanana84 · 05/04/2013 20:03
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