Just to be clear, I have no intention of criticising what parents decide is appropriate to show their own child in the context of teaching them about their own religion.
But I was shocked on Good Friday when DS, 4, said at breakfast that the cross on the top of his hot cross bun was to remind us of Jesus dying on the cross. On further questioning, he said his nursery class had all watched a DVD about Jesus who was a kind man but some people didn't like him and they killed him. He said that Jesus had to carry his own cross up the hill and then they put him on the cross and he died. But it's ok, because he came back to life again.
I appreciate that I don't know exactly what they watched and it probably wasn't particularly graphic, but I think that, if things are as they appear to be from DS' description, then this was really inappropriate. My mother, who was the head teacher of a preschool for 30 years and has a teaching degree in early years education, was with us on Good Friday and was also shocked.
The main reason I have is that death is a hugely sensitive subject for small children. It is one thing to be told the story of Easter in reasonably non-detailed terms, preferably without images, but to watch a DVD of what happened, is far too vivid.
Also, I would like some reassurance that this wasn't taught as "fact" but in the context of introducing the children to different religious festivals and the idea that people believe different things in the world...
By way of background, this is a (generally fabulous) nursery class attached to our local primary school and it is not a c of e school. It draws its pupils from a very mixed background and I am guessing that less than half the nursery class is White British and/or Christian.
Should I ask for further details at the start of term and query the use of the DVD as an appropriate teaching method?
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To think that watching a DVD of Jesus dying on the cross is age inappropriate for 3 and 4 year olds?
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Rollercoasteryears · 01/04/2013 08:58
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