My husband's grandmother died on Sunday. We left Sunday night to stay with his parents. At first we weren't sure when the funeral would be so we were going to take the cat with us. Just before we left we got a text saying the funeral would be Tuesday morning so we had a quick discussion and decided to return home Tuesday night and leave the cat for 2 days on his own.
My father in law has asked dh to do some funeral related stuff on Monday night so my husband now wants to stay an extra night so he can go drinking with his old school friends on Tuesday night.
I really don't want to stay an extra night as I'm worried about the cat and because I find it quite hard work at his parents house. We have three young (active!!) kids and their house really isn't child friendly for example medicine on the sideboard, ornaments everywhere. We didn't bring any toys and the kids are bored already. Also sister in law is staying with her young baby. She hasn't said anything but I think she is a bit stressed with the noise and can't get her baby to sleep. It's a pretty full house.
We had already planned a visit here next month even though dh is now saying he's not sure if he can get the time to work to come.
On the one hand I don't want to be a bitch and say he can't go out but on the other hand I feel he is putting everyone out just for his own selfishness.
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GreenLeafTea · 01/04/2013 05:44
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