He's been working abroad for 14 months now and I've seen him 6 times 3 x 2 weeks (eg at Christmas) and 3 weekends. When he left DSs were aged 19, 17, 16 and 13. His previous job had been abroad, but he'd been home every other weekend. When he lost that job he was out of work for 3 months so we were glad when this one came up, but didn't realise how rarely we'd see one another. He has now lost this job and I've asked him to please come home, rather than stay abroad looking for another one, or taking another foreign contract. He's angry about it. It's about the one demand I've made on him in the 28 years we've been together. Additional information: I would love to join him on a married foreign contract, but DS2 has severe SN that just can't be met in the countries he's worked in recently. His behaviour would be increasingly challenging without our regular contact. DS1 has had recent difficulties with substance abuse (MNers may remember from Teenagers section). I feel I need my DH back and they need their Dad.
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