10mo DD makes nappy change a wrestling match. One we often loose. Distraction is the order of the day but this morning DP used a bit of banana as the distraction. I think this is not good hygiene and generally a bit grim. DP likens it to drinking tea on the loo. I don't think this analogy exactly helps his case!
Nothing wrong with keeping their hands busy. Ds2 liked to try and touch his shitty bum so i started giving him raisins while I did his bum. Baby are really unhygenic anyway - wait till she becomes a toddler and enjoy licking railings and stranger's on the bus