My Dad died last year. His house was burgled a few weeks after he died. The police thought the burglars had been watching us. I was very nervous going back in the house after that, but eventually my brother and I managed to finish clearing the house and we put it on the market.
I live locally and I go past the house pretty much every day. I look at it as I go past to see that the door and gate look closed, and there isn't anything obviously amiss. But I don't go in every day. Partly because it's really sad and depressing, and partly because I still get really nervous when I'm there.
I had a phone call from the police this evening saying that a neighbour had reported that the back door was open. The police went in and some floorboards have been taken up in each room and the copper piping taken. I haven't seen it yet but it sounds like the boiler has been taken too. The police have made it secure for me and I'm to meet the police there in the morning.
I'm absolutely terrified about going back into the house. I don't want to see what's been taken and what damage they've done. I don't want to have to arrange for improved security - I'll have to wait in the house for tradesmen and I'll be wondering if I'm being watched. I guess we'll have to tell the estate agent to hold back on any viewings whilst we sort it out. I'm really shaky and I can't sleep.
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Rolf · 28/03/2013 00:36
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