I am ebf my 3 mo, we are cosleeping and I look after all night wakings. We are currently on holiday staying with relatives, but when working, dh generally leaves the house between 10 and 11. Baby generally wakes about 7.30 and 8.30. I will feed him and chat to him, then after about 30 to 40 mins, I will ask dh to look after him so I can grab a shower or have breakfast in peace, and he always says he's exhausted and needs more time, or he's working, and can get annoyed if I persist. We've just had an argument cos I went into him at 8.45 after baby woke at 8am, he said he'ld had a bad night and needed "5 more minutes" and I got annoyed. I went back in at 9.15, and then we had the argument. He says every time he looked in at me during the night we were sleeping. Baby and I were awake for 2 hours with fussiness an trapped win between 4.30 and 6.30, with baby squealing to wake the household (although not apparently dh who is sleeping in another room as this bed isn't big enough for all 3). He had now got the baby and is in a strop. if he did have a bad night, it was probably contributed to by his drinking, which he does most nights any way. AIBU to be annoyed?
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apachepony · 27/03/2013 09:31
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