My dc fathers has not paid child support for the last 6 years since dc was 4. He has done everything in his power to avoid any attempt to the CSA in paying. I said to exp that it,s reasonable to pay £200 a month to which he said over my dead body will you get a penny out of me.
So for the last few years the CSA have chased him to which now things have moved on and legal action is being taken against him. Last few days he has become very irrate and approached me saying he would do a deal with me if I tell the CSA that he has been paying me since 2011 and he will give me a car plus payment per month.
When I said this is out of my hands he started swearing and shouting down the phone at me. I feel as though he is harrasing me and trying to back me into a corner. I said I don,t trust him to make any sort of payments hence why the CSA are involved to which he said he don,t trust me with our DC!!
He refuses to pay any Government money for DC and will only go through me direct. Should I do this, I feel hassled by him.
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bongobaby · 27/03/2013 09:31
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