bit of backstory, I am big and ugly I always have been have been with on person(but am getting married, wee!) but just no confidence whatsoever, no self esteem.
My DM was in her day was a good figure, pleasant looking like pretty but not beautiful if you get me? But my god she bangs on about it all the time I think is this her way of coping with agieng, but she always comments on the way I look/size all the time, she will say you're a beautiful girl but I feel its disingenuous and feel like there's a but coming.
An in comments conversations about looks its always quickly about her etc
I feel like either, shes finding it hard to deal with the fact she produced a very ugly daughter and shes lashing out or god knows...what goes through that mind lol. Shes on about going to try on dresses soon with my MOH which tbh I'm absolutely dreading tbh, if something doesn't fit right she won't be able to help herself and I'll be shaken to the point I won't want to get married at all.
I wonder if this is just me , and I need to man up but how?
i know how ridiculous this sounds but I'm having a wibble. need some stern talking too.
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Is this deliberate or am I just para? (long sorry)
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whimsicalmess · 15/03/2013 12:19
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