It's ds birthday party soon, he's in reception. There venue I've booked allows up to 35 children. But realistically I think that the venue would be more comfortable with around 20-25 children maximum.
So in a class of 30 there's 12 boys including ds, and of course the rest are girls.
It makes sense to invite all the boys as there's so few. Then there are probably 8 girls who ds really likes and mentions, that would of course mean leaving 10 girls out out of the class which I'm not completely comfortable with and not sure if that's bad form to leave a third of the class out.
Then there are 5 children out of school we want to invite and some of the parents also have babies and siblings who would have to be considered in. So this would bring it up to and possibly over the 35.
I'm fairly sure that not everyone would be able to make it but what to do?
Do I invite everyone including the whole class and pray that 10 don't show up? Leaving 10 girls out seems mean but it would also be mean to leave an even smaller number of boys out.
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100DaysofSummer · 11/03/2013 10:42
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