My dc is due in 3 weeks, dp has dd from previous relationship who is 4yrs. Pil care for her 2 days a week and often have her extra at weekends when she is not spending time with us (while her mother works) she is only gc for them and they quite rightly dote on her however they spoil her rotten. I want to lay down some rules now so that my child isn't spoilt!! Dp doesn't want to rock the boat. You might think all grandparents spoil their grandchildren but here are some examples from the last 2 weeks alone that I have witnessed:
Pil allowed gc to chuck raw eggs on kitchen floor (about 8 in total) because she thought the noise it made was funny!
Gc wanted a DVD that was being advertised on tv (at 8:30pm-she was watching tv to wind down before bed) made such a fuss that fil 'had' to drive to nearest supermarket (22miles away!) and buy it for her!
Wouldn't eat Sunday lunch so mil stopped eating her own to make 4 different pasta dishes until gc decided she didn't want any. Was then allowed ice cream and sweets.
I could go on forever!! I do not want my child thinking this is normal so feel I need to speak up now........
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Mummabubbles · 16/02/2013 17:44
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