We have a 22month old dd who is teething atm and is a nightmare! (No fault of her own)
And a week old ds.
We live in a small terrace house...SMALL! things are hard enough atm with dc and the fact we're moving in just 3 weeks and I've been trying to pack things up (no help from dp) he's had his brother here ALL weekend, all they've done is sit on their asses in the lounge playing fucking fifa!!! The lounge tv is the only one we have and I dont particularly get on with his brother (he's caused us a lot of problems!) so I've been in my bedroom all weekend with ds, he's had dd playing downstairs.
I was unaware his brother was staying! I was never asked, or even told, technically it's my house although he helps pay for things.
His friends have now turned up... I've gone upstairs with ds to express milk, he's come up telling me I'm rude and that I need to be downstairs to occupie his friends partners....my boobs are killing me there so full and there's only enough milk in the fridge for another 2 feeds.
I'm hungry! (Can't eat with people around, own problem I know) so havnt really eaten all weekend,my boobs kill, I'm tired from nights with ds, I'm sick of boxes everywhere and trying to organise everything, I'm fed up of dps attempts of licking my ass because he knows I'm annoyed he's been a cock all weekend.
And I don't feel I'm being rude by NEEDING to get this milk out my sodding boobs!! I just feel like crying... dp's now come and announced its my hormones! ...foot in balls very shortly!!!!!!!
AIBU?
to want to kick dp in the balls!!!!!
InTheNightGarden · 10/02/2013 17:59
If I lived nearby I would happily come round and kick him in the balls for you, I'm good like that.
A better solution may be to go downstairs and tell them all to fuckoff get out of YOUR house right now so you can eat, relax in your own lounge, and breast feed/express in comfort. I'd also be reconsidering moving with this selfish man child. 
Your house, you have a week old baby you need to feed and he has people round? YANBU to feel like kicking him, although would be a bit U to do it.
Tell him to get them out now. It is not acceptable.
They can all go to one of their own houses instead.
When they're gone put what you want on the telly, feed on one side and express off the other same time if you can - he can make you a sandwich and leave you in peace.
On a serious note, he needs to sort his attitude before you move - will this be your house again or a joint one?
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for you
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