I'll try to keep this brief.
We'd been together for 2 years when I fell pregnant. It was unplanned although we had discussed having a baby and were not using contraception.
He finished our relationship when I told him I was pregnant, continued to live with me for the next 6 months (disclaimer: I was heartbroken, hormonal and really thought it was the shock and that he'd get over it once the baby arrived so stupidly allowed this instead of kicking his arse out).
However he moved back to his mum's at the end of the college term (he's a 'mature' student), but attended the birth of our child.
When our baby was 5 weeks old, I found out that he was in a relationship with a fellow college student (she's married with a child)
I was so angry as I'd had previous concerns re their friendship and her inappropriateness and his apparent lack of boundaries.
I'm posting this here, as they have now moved in together - she moved straight out from her place with her husband, straight into a house they are now renting together, and they are both on easy street whilst I struggle as a lone parent.
Our DS is only 4 months old.
I'm trying really hard to maintain dignity (mostly failing!) but my ex is now wanting to see our baby at his place and take him overnight!
The thought of that woman and him playing happy families with my DS makes me feel ill TBH, so I have said he can see him when he likes (when mutually convenient) but only at my place.
Obviously he is unhappy about this.
I am trying to constantly remember that it's my son's relationship with his dad, and not my issues with him that is important, but it's just so damn hard at the moment!
I need some clarity please! Please mums net jury, AIBU?
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AIBU?
To not allow my baby son to stay overnight at his father's new 'love nest'?
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dollyindub · 28/01/2013 13:58
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