Now I don't have children (my first is due in summer)
My sister has one DD, who is now aged 2 and the only time I have ever looked after her, as in I was the only responsible adult in the house is twice - both when she was sleeping and just for 2 hours max and both times I have been the absolute only choice.
And also times where I have looked after her for 10-30 minutes alone.
Me and my sister were spending the day in London on a Saturday and she has to drive by my house to get home, so I said on the Friday why don't you pick me up and I can stay at yours and look after DN and you and DBIL can go to the cinema/dinner/drinks whatever.
She said thanks she'll get back to me, and then just said no maybe another time.
It's really hurtful that they don't seem to trust me.
I've never done anything to be considered an irresponsible adult, I don't do drugs, and I rarely drink (none now I'm pg), I have a good group of friends, good job etc.
aibu to feel hurt that I'm only considered for babysitting as the last option and only when it is certain to be her nap time?
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to be annoyed at my sister never lets me babysit?
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DivineIntervention87 · 26/01/2013 19:25
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