DP and I get on great, we love each other, are moving in together shortly. I am very happy and I trust him. Currently we spend 3 nights a week together. However, i tend to be in on my own the other 4 nights as I have dc (whom, incidentally, he adores). I don't have many friends here myself, as I moved back home to be near my parents when i became lone parent.
My issue is that DP's best friend is female. I have met her, and find her agreeable enough, just a tad overbearing. She has a boyfriend. I know nothing will ever happen between them, but still, it hurts when I am spending Friday night alone with a sleeping dc and he is out for a meal with her (they tend to go out for food, rather than the pub as she's teetotal and he's not a big drinker either).
Once we live together, it will be easier for us to all hang out together, but until then, it gets on my nerves. The fact is, I wouldn't feel like this if he was out with another bloke. It irks me that he has to hang out once a week with another woman - albeit an attached one. Yet as I say, i trust him, I feel very secure in his love for me and happy in our relationship. I am hoping to make more friends myself once we live together as he lives in a bigger city where there's more to do, but i wonder - would he like it if i was hanging round with another bloke? I do have male friends, but truth be told there's always been some sexual shenanigans at some point. Perhaps he's just more mature than me. ANyway. Given his reassurance and all-round greatness, adn the fact she's got a boyfriend anyway, i'm BU, aren't I?
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racetobed · 18/01/2013 21:30
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